Most of us know someone who is struggling financially and can’t seem to catch a break. Whether trouble comes from external circumstances or their own doing, everyone has a friend or two who has a hard time making ends meet.
Sometimes it’s hard to know what to say, or exactly how to help a friend who is struggling financially. You can’t put yourself in trouble (or give up your own fiscal goals) by bailing anyone out, especially not repeatedly—but that doesn’t make you helpless. In fact, you may be the best thing for your friend, even if you’re not a financial guru yourself.
Here are nine things you can do to ease the pain of someone else who is struggling financially.
- Allow them to say “no, thanks.” Even if you’re offering a free activity, sometimes it costs them gas money they don’t have to make it work. Or childcare. Or time away from work.
- Advocate for the cause. Often, poverty is a cycle that is hard to get out of, and raising the awareness can help. Speak up for the poor when they’re not around. Coordinate rides to the store or health department regularly. Volunteer at free library programs that enrich lives. Feeling extra ambitious? Run for town council or lobby elected officials to help the cause of those in need by tackling the issues that are keeping them down.
- Learn to cook together. Avoid expensive outings by making an adventure of creating great meals.
- Offer support. Ideas include childcare, rides to and from work, or a listening ear. Get creative.
- Tell them what you know. You know that there are non-profit credit counselors qualified to help people get out of debt and stay financially free. Share that information with your friends. This not only gives them the tools they need to dig out, it also relieves you of any pressure to be the expert.
- If you do give them a hand, be quiet about it. Anonymous Christmas gifts or school supplies for kids, footing the mechanic’s bill at the repair shop, or a grocery gift card in the mail box can do wonders for someone’s spirits, but not if you’re acting like the hero and bringing attention to it.
- Organize a clothing exchange. A clothing swap gives all participants the chance to donate their gently-used items to the collective group, and then pick out a number of items they need from the lot. Coordinate this event monthly or quarterly, so as kids grow, they can have a few free items regularly.
- Put yourself in their shoes. Many of us have been in a similar situation, where the bills seem to just pile up faster than we can handle. If you recall, there are a few things people did and said that irked you, and you can easily avoid those pitfalls now that you’re on better footing. Knowing how to help a friend in financial need can be as simple as imagining you’re in the same situation – what would you appreciate from others?
- Be inspired by the sacrifices they make. When you see all the financial sacrifices your friend makes to keep from going under, allow yourself to be impressed. It’s not easy to say “no” to activities that blow the budget, so be inspired to make good financial decisions alongside your friend. Believe it or not, this may spur your friend to stay the course and stick with that budget.
What are some other creative ways to help a friend who’s struggling financially? Comment below, or tweet ideas to @cesisolutions.
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